Blended families DON’T have to be hard. Put your children first! This photo always inspires me. I hope it inspires you as well. Our children learn from us. I would rather my children know that even though his parents didn’t work out we could still get along and co parent. I want them to be excited for marriage and not scared. I want them to be excited to be a parent not scared. Whether that is through having a child, adopting or becoming a step parent.